Old school love vs. Modern love


Its amazing how things are different from the way they were before. As life changes, loves changes and sincerity and purity fades away.
Relationships nowadays are different from the ones our parents had in their days.
Yesterday my friend’s cousin was talking about love, and I realised that indeed everything has changed.
Still yesterday, my mum and I were talking about marriage, she was telling me how she fell in love with my dad. It wasn’t like romeo and Juliet, but it was sincere, pure and simple and these are things lacking in modern love.
I’m going to write both stories, so you could see what I see.

               MODERN LoVE
Honestly, I’m not going to lie, I was first attracted to him because of his gorgeous, oh so beautiful car. He had a Mercedes Benz xLR McLaren, plus he was super rich, that made him super perfect to me, even though he wasn’t that fine.
I started to love him for real, and just when I had surrendered my heart to him, I found out that he was getting married to some local chic from bauchi. I was heart broken and insulted, he chose that village thing over me.

                   OLD SKUL LOVE
If you wanted to see him smile, just call my name, everyone knew he was crazy in love, except me. I had a lot of suitors then, and he was the least on the list.
I would pass by him everytime to meet my other suitors, completely ignoring him, but he’ld never get upset, and he’ld still come back the next day. I’ld ignore him again and again, but he never gave up. Sometimes held come and spend more than two hours waiting for me, patiently..
People started talking about him, making only positive remarks about him and how in love with me he was, even my mother liked him. I decided to give him a chance and slowly I fell in love, he had nothing but I knew he’ld do anything for me. He was funny, patient and understanding.
People tried to destroy our love, but we never broke. He had nothing and I had nothing too, all we could boast of was our love

Men or women, I think we should all learn to love deeper, with all our hearts. Try to look pass material and vain things..love is a big deal. 

(Please like and comment …loves)…merry Christmas

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Letting go and getting over you…..(for my best friend)



          LETTING GO
Letting go of you was like having
A heart attack over and over again
You became all i every wanted but
                 Couldn’t get

It took all i had to let you go
I felt lost in my own world
I shed mental blood trying
                 To forget

I had never tried so hard with
Anyone and that’s why even when
You’ve left my mind, you
  Would never leave
            My heart

Sometimes when it’s not meant to be, you just have to let go…. Cos Letting go is your best option. 
And when we refuse to let go of what we shouldn’t stick to, we end up getting hurt. 
Several times i’ve seen people get broken all because they chose to keep fighting for what’s not worth fighting for or probably not theirs’. 
I know its hard to let go and even harder to get over it after Letting go… But i assure you that it will pass, it will heal through the test of time.. 
A lot of people would recommend different ways of getting over Letting go,  but i’m not sure if it works, i believe our hearts work in different ways..

Stay strong lovez…. And thanks for reading.. 🙂

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Marry me


What do you think about marriage? If you think marriage is like living in the land of milk and honey, please wake up cos its not real. Everything you think you know about marriage, forget it cos you have no idea I.e if you’re not married yet…and I have no idea too..but….
    Is marriage about love? Can love alone sustain a marriage? The answer to both questions is NO.
   How do you know that this is the person you want to marry?
  No human is perfect, we all have our flaws. So they is no guarantee that you will always be happy with the person you choose to marry.
You gotta take your time, know the good and bad sides of that person, master the bad sides, see all the flaws and then you can make a decision. If you feel that you can live with him or her even with all the flaws, then please waste no time.
   Yes he might be hot tampered but still really nice with a good personality, and yes she might be clumsy but very considerate and understanding.
   Sometimes he might be nice sweet and romantic but very irresponsible, and she might be neat and beautiful but very hot headed.
   You just gotta put everything in consideration with the fact that no one is perfect in mind. Forget about love for a second, forget about looks, looks fade. If you feel that you can survive with that person beside you, through all the Good and tough times, then you’re good to go.

Marry your friend. After years of marriage, love will fade, the only thing that would sustain the marriage is that friendship. Have you ever thought about how we we can remain together with our  best friends for years, we fight and reconcile, but then its so hard to remain together with a boyfriend or girlfriend after a few fights and the passage of time?
The bond of friendship is incredibly strong, let your partner be your lover and friend

Marriage is too serious a business to be based on mere love, it takes more than just love to build a marriage. Marry someone who makes you better in every aspect of your life.
  For all you who think you’re ready to get married, for all you who can’t wait to get married, and for all those who have the notion that marriage is indeed a bed of roses, but with thorns around it.

Ladies and gents, chill, take your time, look in the right places, look deeper, look beyond d beauty, the wealth, looks and love..(don’t get me wrong, love is a beautiful thing). What you see, do you like or are you having doubt’s? ..its all good, but be careful, mistakes follow you no matter how hard you try to erase them…

Hy loves….please comment and let’s share matters of our hearts….,…..

P.S  I got a lot of phrases I put in the article from my constitutional law lecturer….Prof.Nchi…he’s so experienced😮*****amazed face****

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Introducing me


Today was a very fun day for me…I’m really happy and contented…..I was thinking and then I realized, we haven’t really met, so let me introduce myself.

Who am I?….have you ever asked yourself this question? Have you been able to answer it? If you were asked this question on a form, or a questionnaire, what would you write?
My name is zainab Kabir, I’m law student at nasarawa state university. I think I’m a lot of things, I have like 99 personalities. Your personality affects my personality. I could meet ten people a day, and if you asked them what kind of person I am, they would describe my personality in ten different ways.
I like a lot of things, and hate a lot. sometimes i hate the things I like, and vise versa.
My friends would say I’m lazy, but my grandma and cousins would say I’m hardworking. Most people would say I’m nice, but my brother would say, “kind of, maybe, sometimes”.
If they is anything or anyone I love sincerely, they are my family, friends and coke..
I don’t really like meeting new people, I’m very comfortable with the ones I already know.
I don’t think anyone is really nice, until I get to know u deep. I hate it when people judge me, you don’t know half my story, forget you’ve known me for years. How can you know me, when even I don’t know myself.
I don’t judge people and I really don’t notice many things people seem to notice so much.
I like simple things, some people might doubt this, but the simplest and littliest things attract me. I don’t care if you’re nice or not, as long as I’m comfortable around u. I don’t care if you are beautiful or handsome, I’ll love you if you have a good heart.
I don’t know if I’m nice, pretty or anything, but I know I’m not a bad person. I love to see children smile, I love to be the reason for that smile. I’m very ambitious and would love to make a difference.
Religiously, I don’t know, I pray to God to make me stronger and a better person, to bless and protect my parents, siblings and friends, and to guide them through the right path.
I’m sometimes annoying and clumsy..and silly too

That was quite an introduction..ryt?
Comment please if we have anything in common, and feel free to tell me about yourself…


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