What do you think about marriage? If you think marriage is like living in the land of milk and honey, please wake up cos its not real. Everything you think you know about marriage, forget it cos you have no idea I.e if you’re not married yet…and I have no idea too..but….
Is marriage about love? Can love alone sustain a marriage? The answer to both questions is NO.
How do you know that this is the person you want to marry?
No human is perfect, we all have our flaws. So they is no guarantee that you will always be happy with the person you choose to marry.
You gotta take your time, know the good and bad sides of that person, master the bad sides, see all the flaws and then you can make a decision. If you feel that you can live with him or her even with all the flaws, then please waste no time.
Yes he might be hot tampered but still really nice with a good personality, and yes she might be clumsy but very considerate and understanding.
Sometimes he might be nice sweet and romantic but very irresponsible, and she might be neat and beautiful but very hot headed.
You just gotta put everything in consideration with the fact that no one is perfect in mind. Forget about love for a second, forget about looks, looks fade. If you feel that you can survive with that person beside you, through all the Good and tough times, then you’re good to go.
Marry your friend. After years of marriage, love will fade, the only thing that would sustain the marriage is that friendship. Have you ever thought about how we we can remain together with our best friends for years, we fight and reconcile, but then its so hard to remain together with a boyfriend or girlfriend after a few fights and the passage of time?
The bond of friendship is incredibly strong, let your partner be your lover and friend
Marriage is too serious a business to be based on mere love, it takes more than just love to build a marriage. Marry someone who makes you better in every aspect of your life.
For all you who think you’re ready to get married, for all you who can’t wait to get married, and for all those who have the notion that marriage is indeed a bed of roses, but with thorns around it.
Ladies and gents, chill, take your time, look in the right places, look deeper, look beyond d beauty, the wealth, looks and love..(don’t get me wrong, love is a beautiful thing). What you see, do you like or are you having doubt’s? ..its all good, but be careful, mistakes follow you no matter how hard you try to erase them…
Hy loves….please comment and let’s share matters of our hearts….,…..
P.S I got a lot of phrases I put in the article from my constitutional law lecturer….Prof.Nchi…he’s so experienced😮*****amazed face****
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